One Gift

December 23, 2011


"For God loved the world so much that He gave His one
and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but
have eternal life." John 3:16

How many gifts will you receive this Christmas? I know, I know, that's a highly inappropriate question. Perhaps an even more ill-suited conversation starter is, how many gifts will your children receive on Christmas day?

Our children will receive an abundance of loot over the next forty-eight hours. They'll move from one gift to the next unable to fully embrace or appreciate any one particular item because their internal drive forces them to keep going, to keep unwrapping, to keep searching for the next best thing. Each year I witness our children's gratitude weaken; the significance of each gift minimized as they make their way through a multitude of presents.

I experience the same dilemma. The abundance of activity during the holiday season--shopping, buying, wrapping, decorating, caroling, baking, visiting, packing, more shopping and wrapping, traveling--causes me to lose sight of the true reason for the season. Rather than focusing on the most significant gift I've ever received--the gift of my salvation--the hysteria of the holidays robs me of my focus and adoration for my Savior.

God loved the world so much that He gave us one gift--His one and only Son--so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.

Feeling overwhelmed this past week I prayed that God would hush the world around me and remind me of His one true Gift. I recently taught a four-week Bible study which revealed multiple treasures God bestowed us through the birth of His Son (see the Free Resources tab to download the handout from each lesson). But each of those gifts came from the same hand, from the life of One.

As my thoughts grew still I realized it isn't until everything else--the shopping, the gifts, the packing list--is removed that I truly appreciate my one gift. I recognized a similarity between my children and me, and for the first time I began to consider what would happen if my children received just one gift for Christmas.

Did you roll your eyes? I thought some might but I invite you to stay with me for a moment.

My children receive gifts from family members. I am grateful for the generosity of family and friends, and I wouldn't begin to tell others to exclude our children at Christmastime. I realize that the giving and exchanging of gifts is one way to demonstrate our love for others.

I'm suggesting that our children receive one gift from my husband and me.

What if?

What if, when we celebrate Christmas with our immediate family, we each received one gift?

Two years ago my husband and I trimmed our children's Christmas list down to three gifts--after all, the wise men brought Jesus three gifts upon His birth (Matthew 2:1-11), why should we receive more than our King? But this year, we've trimmed our tree even more.

God gave us one gift at Christmas--not three, not one hundred and three. To my earlier point, many treasures came to us through that one gift--the gift of life, hope and peace to name a few. When my children receive one gift from mom and dad, won't they also receive the gift of simplification? of gratitude? of learning to embrace and appreciate one gift?

What if I follow God's lead?

What if we give our children one gift and give Jesus three?

Maybe you've seen the image circulating on Facebook--the one with a picture of starving children on one side and a picture of holiday shoppers with full carts (and full arms) on the other side. Beneath the photo reads, "Define necessity."

Just think of what we could do with the money made available by narrowing down our shopping list.

Yesterday our family chose to return this

$10 Barbie clothes

in exchange for this

feeding a hungry baby for a week.
(Photo courtesy of Samaritan's Purse 2011 Gift Catalog)

I share snapshots of our giving neither to boast nor to depict myself as a saint, but rather to demonstrate the power of a dollar . . . or in this case, of ten dollars.

Malachi 3:10 reads, "'Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,' says the Lord
of Heaven’s Armies, 'I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will
pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in!
Try it! Put me to the test!'" Its the only place in Scripture God tells us to test Him. In essence God says, "Share generously with those in need. When you do, I will bless you so much you won't have room for it all." I know my God. He's an A+ student. He'll pass this test every time!

As the conclusion of a busy holiday season fast approaches I invite you to consider one gift. May God help us to unwrap the gift of Jesus on Christmas day as well as each day of the coming new year.

I'd love to hear from you. If you had to choose, what one gift would you like to receive this Christmas? How does your family take time to recognize the significance of each gift at Christmastime?

A Glimpse Into a Mother's Heart

December 22, 2011


"But Mary kept all these things in her heart and thought about them often." Luke 2:19

Earlier this week I tagged along with my husband as he traveled to Dallas for a business trip. Back-to-back meetings for my husband left me free to roam our old stomping grounds. My first stop? The cemetery--to pay our daughter a Christmas visit.

On account of our relocation to Central Texas, nearly two years have passed since I last visited her. I arrived to the cemetery just after eight o'clock in the morning. Just me. No one else. No bereaved family members or friends visiting loved ones. Just an opportunity for some quality mother/daughter time.

I realize my daughter isn't really there. My faith allows me to rest knowing that her spirit, her soul, the part of her which God made to last for eternity is alive and very well in Heaven. The cemetery is simply the place I go to visit the most tangible memory of my daughter.

"Your flowers look weathered," I tell her. "I'll buy a replacement and return in a bit." As a mother, the chance to care for my child, to do something for her brought my heart tremendous joy.

Amidst visits with old friends and neighbors throughout the day I eventually made it to the store and returned to the cemetery with flowers--and a full heart--in hand.

"I'm back," I said to her. I placed the new flowers in her vase and pulled out a small wind-chime I purchased years ago and hung it on one of the stems. Sweet music chimed in the gentle breeze. Resting my hand on the ground one last time I whispered my goodbyes.

I hate that the body of one of my children resides in a cemetery. Driving down the dirt road which leads to my daughter's grave site fills my mind with wonderment and disbelief. But to visit my daughter at Christmas time is a gift I'll treasure this year. A simple gift. Just a mama caring for her child the best she knows how.

Merry Christmas my sweet one. May you rest in His arms tonight.

Telling Our Children

December 16, 2011


"And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you
are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and
when you are getting up." Deuteronomy 6:6-7

My husband and I did the deed last night--we told our children the truth about Santa Claus. They took the news quite well. To my husband's credit, he began by telling our children the true story of Saint Nicholas.

According to the St. Nicholas Center, Saint Nicholas, better known at an early age as simply Nicholas, became an orphan after his parents died in an epidemic. Nicholas' parents left him with a sizable sum of money, and enough godly faith and character to match his inheritance. Following the generosity of his Savior, Nicholas anonymously gave all he had to the poor. Eventually the church named Nicholas a Bishop; the day of his death still remembered as St. Nicholas day. Generations have honored Saint Nicholas by the exchanging of gifts; children by hanging socks over the fireplace in hopes that the generous Saint Nicholas might pay them, or at least their stockings, a visit.

It's a good story. The generosity of one man inspired countless others to give in a similar manner.

As I pondered the origins of our modern-day Santa Claus, I sat amazed by the influence of one man. Enamored by Saint Nicholas, parents told their children about him, and those children told their children, and so on. Hardly a Christmas passes without mention of the name St. Nick. Amazingly, born just 270 years after the birth of Christ, the story of Saint Nicholas continues strong today. We've told the story, and we've told it well.

But as I considered the faithfulness with which we've passed down the story of jolly ol' St. Nick, my heart sank with grief. For there exists a greater story which deserves to be told.

God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that
whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16). The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel--which means, "God with us" (Matthew 1:23). That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord (Philippians 2:10-11).

The legacy of Santa honors one who lived a generous life. How do we choose to honor the One who gave the most generous gift of all? We pass down through generations the story of a man who is deceased. What about the story of the Man who died on the cross for our sin but who rose again to live forever with God, interceding on our behalf (Hebrews 7:25)?

The prominence of Santa in our modern-day society proves that stories can indeed be passed from generation to generation. Good news withstands the test of time.

Let us not be remiss this Christmas, and every Christmas, when we
are at home and when we are on the road, when we are going to bed and
when we are getting up, to tell our children the true Good News, the Greatest story ever told.

Mary's Obedience

December 14, 2011


"And Mary said, 'Behold, the bondslave of the Lord; may it be done to me according to your word.' And the angel departed from her." Luke 1:38 NASB

I recently asked the Lord to take me to the next place, to the next level in our relationship. I love the Lord but I want to love Him more. I trust God but I want to know Him by another name--ELOHIM (the Hebrew name for God), ADONAI (my Lord), EL-SHADDAI (God Almighty).

I knew my request would come with discomfort, challenge and discipline, as drawing nearer to God will always require further surrender myself and my ways. The past two weeks have been difficult. Two nights ago I cried myself to sleep. The Lord has burdened my heart for many things--scary things. My response? "But Lord, what about my kids?" It goes without saying that I would never intentionally place my children in the path of danger. However, as I consider reaching out to those bound by the enemy, my mommy-mind runs amuck with the potential harm that could come my family's way.

A few years ago I struggled to transition into the role of stay-at-home mom. It wasn't that I didn't want to be with my children, it was that staying at home meant that I had to surrender my idea of sustaining a career. Six years into the SAHM journey, I love serving as the primary caregiver and teacher of these precious ones. I love my role almost to a fault. I love my children. I want to be with them, provide for them, protect them at all costs. In my quest to go deeper with the Lord He has revealed to me that I have placed my children in a most precarious place: above my love and concern for Him.

Matthew 10:37 reads, "If you love your son or daughter more than Me, you are not worthy of being mine."

Ouch.

Its okay that I love my children. As parents God calls us to teach and to train our children, and to serve as a vessel through which He can pour His love for them. But God loves my children more than I ever could. His plans for my children exceed anything I can think to ask or imagine. Why, then, do I think God would call me to serve in a manner which would cause my children to fall out of the protection of His will for them? Why do I think that His will for me includes anything less than His best for my children?

In light of Christmas, I couldn't help but ponder the example of Mary, the mother of Jesus.

God sent the angel Gabriel to tell Mary that she would conceive and give birth to Jesus, the Son of God.

Consider Mary's plight. Wasn't she familiar with Scripture? God's Word is so deep and so wide that none can fully comprehend its meaning. However, I must believe that because of the prophets Mary knew enough of the Holy Writ to have an inkling as to what her--and her child's--future might hold if she followed in obedience.

Didn't Mary know the rejection and utter disdain that her Son would face? Didn't Mary know that her Son would endure a horrid death upon a cross? Didn't Mary know?

Mary could have said, "But God, if I fulfill the call you've placed on my life, my child (whose child?) will suffer. I think instead I'll spare Him the suffering by refusing to follow your lead."

But that's not how Mary responded. Mary recognized her place of humility before God. She surrendered to the fact that she could not change God's will for His Son. Mary did not challenge God's authority or question His plan or petition Him for another way. She simply responded, “I am the Lord’s servant. May everything you have said about me come true."

Oh, that I may respond to God's call with similar words. "Behold your bondslave; may it be done to me according to your word."

On account of Mary's obedience, God delivered Salvation to the world. Who knows what God may accomplish through our obedience?

I do not know what God has in store for my children (whose children?). I do know God will never call them to suffer as much as He did His own Son--to bear the sins of the world.

My
earnest prayer for my children is Colossians 1:9-11, which read, "We
have not stopped praying for you since we first heard about
you. We ask God to give you complete knowledge of his will and to give
you spiritual wisdom and understanding. Then the way you live will
always honor and please the Lord, and your
lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will
grow as you learn to know God better and better.
We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power
so you will have all the endurance and patience you need."

I beleive the most abundant life we'll ever live is the life God ordained for us. The one sure way for my children to fulfill God's call on
their lives is to watch their mama walk in obedience to fulfill God's call on her own life.

Father, I must ask forgiveness for my lack of trust in You. Thank you for revealing an area of my heart which offends you. Help me to trust you with your children. Help me to love you so much that I am willing to follow you wherever you go. In Jesus name, Amen.

Leftovers

November 28, 2011


"After everyone was full, Jesus told His disciples, 'Now gather the leftovers, so that nothing is wasted.'” John 6:12

Our family enjoyed quite the Turkey Day. Ham and turkey and all the trimmings one might imagine. We finished our meal, stocked the refrigerator full of the food which remained, and consumed a second round of our Thanksgiving meal again the next day. We were thankful for leftovers. And it wasn't until I read John 6 this past week that I realized how important leftovers are to Jesus too.

John 6 records the account of a little boy who offered all he had--five loaves of bread and two fish--to Jesus as Jesus aimed to feed a crowd which had gathered before Him. Five loaves of bread and two fish to feed 5,000 men (not to mention the women and children who traveled with these men). The boy's offering doesn't seem like much but what matters most is that he withheld nothing from our Savior.

I can't help but wonder why the boy had five loaves of bread and two fish. Had the boy come with his family only to give away every last bite of nourishment they had prepared for their journey? Had the boy paid an honest day's wages for the food only to return home empty-handed? Why did the boy bother offering his food to Jesus when it obviously would fail to feed such a crowd?

Jesus took the bread and fish, thanked God for it and distributed the food amongst the people who had gathered. Scripture tells us that everyone ate as much as they wanted (John 6:11). That a crowd which likely exceeded 10,000 was fed by such a small amount of food is just one of the many miracles Jesus performed while on this earth. But what I find just as fascinating is that Jesus took extra care to capture every last piece of the boy's offering.

After the crowd had eaten their fill Jesus said to His disciples, "Now gather the leftovers, so that nothing is wasted."

Not only does the story of Jesus feeding 5,000+ teach me that no offering is too small for Jesus to use, it reminds me that nothing goes to waste in God's economy. When we surrender our lives to Him for His purpose and His glory, He promises to use every last bit of our offering for the good of ourselves and for the good of others.

Feel as if you have nothing to offer our Lord? Remember the boy and his fish and bread. Jesus said the harvest is great but the workers are few (Luke 10:2). Offer all you have to Jesus so that He may feed the crowd which stands before Him.
If there is any part of us, any part of our family, any part of our
offering left over, rest assured that He'll collect it in a basket so that none goes to
waste.

My Very Present Help

November 22, 2011


"God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble." Psalm 46:1

An innocent joke in Sunday school left one of our sweet daughters in tears after class this week. When I first spoke with my daughter she simply appeared to be in a very foul mood. Little by little the story began to unfold. My heart nearly burst with pride at the realization that she had come to me for help; that my normally independent, tight-lipped daughter trusted me to guide her through a time of trouble.

Oh, how our Heavenly Father longs for us to come to Him in the same manner. He is our refuge and our strength. Our very present help in times of trouble.

Though as a parent I like to believe that I am always available to help my children, there are times when I simply unaccessible. Whether my children and I find ourselves separated by a mere classroom or by some other physical or even emotional distance, there will prove to be times when I fail to be of any assistance to my little ones.

But not the Lord. God is always ready, willing and more than able to help His children when we need it most.

God is our very present help. Psalm 139:5 tells us that God "hems us in from behind and before." God has promised, "Never will I leave you. Never will I forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5) God knows the trials we endure. He also knows how to use those trials for our good and for His glory. Jeremiah 33:3 tells us to call to Him

As my daughter shared her burden with me her mood immediately seemed to lift. I affirmed her concerns and offered her strategies for the next time she encounters a similar situation. After our discussion we stood together alongside our church family and praised the Lord through song.

Is there a situation which has you down?

Cry out to the Lord. He is your refuge and your strength. He is your very present help during times of need.

Why Say Grace?

November 24, 2011

"Look! I have given you every seed-bearing plant throughout the earth and all the fruit trees for your food." Genesis 1:29

When Suffering Endures

November 15, 2011


"Jesus didn’t trust them, because He knew human nature. No one needed to tell Him what mankind is really like." John 2:24-25

Jesus knew.

The Son of God came to earth fully aware of how mankind would receive Him. Throughout each of the four gospels Jesus clearly depicted intimate details of His death. Jesus knew that many would despise Him, scoff at His Word, and ultimately reject the sacrifice He made on the cross. Yet He came anyway. Jesus endured though the pain and agony of this life often brought Him to His knees. Why? Hebrews 12:2 tells us Jesus endured this life for the joy set before Him.

Eugene Peterson explains it this way in The Message, "Because [Jesus] never lost sight of where He was headed—that exhilarating
finish in and with God—He could put up with anything along the way:
Cross, shame, whatever. And now He's there, in the place of honor, right
alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over
that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility He plowed
through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!" (Hebrews 12:1-3)

How do we continue living when it seems this life has little to offer?

The same way our Savior did--by focusing on the joy set before us.

Romans 8:18 assures us that what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later.

Later?!? you exclaim. But I want it now!

That's the hard part.

God never promised to relieve our troubles in this world. God does promise, however, to carry us through. More than one woman has expressed this phrase to me, "I just don't see how I can make it staying married to this man the rest of my life." I respond, "God hasn't given you the strength to stay married to him the rest of your life. He's given you the strength to stay married to him today. And when you wake up tomorrow morning, you'll find He's given you strength for that day too" (Lamentations 3:23).

Psalm 55:22 tells us to cast our burdens upon God and He will sustain us. When we feel tempted to take the easy way out, God promises to remain faithful. He promises to show us the way to endure--a way that will enable us to hold true to His Word (1 Corinthians 10:13).

When the pain and suffering of this life seem too much to bear, strip off every weight that slows you down--especially the sin that so
easily trips us up--by surrendering it to the Lord. Run with endurance the race God has set
before you. Do this by keeping your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 2:1-2).

Why is Death so Hard?

November 14, 2011


"He has also set eternity in the hearts of men." Ecclesiastes 3:11

Why is death so hard to embrace? I once heard a trained counselor say that it takes six to nine months--sometimes longer--for the heart to accept what the mind already knows.

My beloved father-in-law passed away unexpectedly in his sleep this past Wednesday. I loved him like my own dad. We carried him to his final resting place this past weekend. Yet the death of my father-in-law still seems so foreign, so surreal, so . . . wrong.

Though our minds recognize the finality of death our hearts long for something more. God made us in His image (Genesis 1:27) and set eternity in our hearts (Ecclesiastes 3:11). Death was not part of God's design. Death entered the world on account of one--the thief who came to steal, kill and destroy.

The Good News?

Greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). Jesus overcame death so that through Him we might overcome death too. Not might as in maybe. Might as in the MIGHTy power of Christ which works in us and through us as believers to present us before God as righteous (Romans 3:24).

Because of Jesus we need not grieve the loss of a loved one as those who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13). Though our physical bodies pass away, those who have trusted Christ--not good deeds or family heritage but those who have trusted Christ--to bring them into a right-standing before God will live for eternity.

Eternity. He set our hearts on it for a reason. We were made for eternity.

Have you made the choice? Have you trusted Christ to cover your sin? I praise my Father in Heaven that my father-in-law did . . . just three short months ago. My father-in-law's death reminds me of just one thing: our time here is short; our days, numbered. We must, MUST reconcile things with our maker. One day it will be too late. But it's never too soon.

The Bible says that none are righteous (Romans 3:10). All have sinned and fallen short of God's glorious standard (Romans 3:23). The penalty for sin is death (Romans 6:23). But God so loved the world that He gave is only Son to die FOR us. That whosoever should believe in His Son should not perish but have everlasting life (John 3:16).

One day the Lord Himself will come down from Heaven with a commanding shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God (1 Thessalonians 4:16). Until our time comes, because of his profession of faith in Christ, I know my father-in-law awaits us in Heaven with a grandbaby in each arm.

Pawpaw, you loved me as your own. As a wife to your son, a mother to your grandchildren, and a teacher to those who composed your crown, you were a continuous source of love, encouragement and support. You are greatly loved and will be missed tremendously.

In Loving Memory of RHH, 8/7/47-11/9/11

Living in Fear

November 4, 2011


"'Do not be afraid of ________________, whom you now fear. Do not be
afraid of him,' declares the LORD, 'for I am with you and will save you
and deliver you from his hands.'" Jeremiah 42:11

I know of an ugly four-letter word. It begins with the letter "f." Dare me to say it?

Fear.

How many prayers have we whispered to the Lord at night, Oh Father, please keep me safe. How long have we searched for that feeling of security, an assurance that no harm will ever come our way? We falsely believe, If only someone could guarantee my safety, I would live in such peace.

Call off the search parties.

Look high and low, and no place will you find a promise of physical safety. Stop searching. It simply isn't there. Instead, we must learn to place our trust in the arms of the One who guards both our bodies and our souls.

The Lord says, "I, yes I, am the One who comforts you. So why are you afraid of mere humans, who wither like the grass and disappear? I am the Lord your God . . . I have put My words in your mouth and hidden you safely in My hand." (Isaiah 51:12, 15, 16)

David claimed, "I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? What can mere mortals do to me?" (Psalm 56:4)

Jesus said, "Don’t be afraid of those who want to kill your body;
they cannot touch your soul. Fear only God, who can destroy both soul
and body in hell. What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you [yes--YOU!] are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows." (Matthew 10:28-31)

Home security systems, dead-bolts, a barking dog--all good attempts to bestow upon ourselves a sense of comfort and security. But it is God who ensures our safety for all eternity.

Harm may come our way on earth but God causes all things--ALL THINGS--to work together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). He promises that all things--ALL THINGS--are for His glory (Romans 11:36).

Sexual assault is for God's glory? Being beaten in our own home is for our good?

Absolutely not.

But when we turn to the Lord for healing He empowers us to become more than conquerors through Christ who loves us (Romans 8:37). When we live in peace despite a horrific experience in the past, God gets the glory.

Rather than lying awake at night in fear of what may happen to me or to my children, I remind myself of God's truth. Satan has to ask permission--PERMISSION--to sift us like wheat (Luke 22:31)! Why does God grant the enemy such permissions? Only eternity will tell. But God promises that He is in control, that He loves me more than I can fathom, that my dignity and honor come from Him, and that as His child, and as the Father of my children He will redeem every experience I endure. True peace comes, not from the guarantee of my physical safety, but from the security of my spiritual life.

How do we transfer our trust from worldly things unto Him?

We must know Him.

Our carnal minds would fail to trust a stranger to guard over our most valuable possessions. Even if we'd heard from a friend that this "stranger" was trustworthy doubt would disrupt our peace. The same proves true with our relationships with the Lord.

God is faithful, for He cannot deny who He is (2 Timothy 2:13). God is trustworthy. But we will not discover true peace until we come to know Him ourselves.

How do we come to know Him? Through His Word. Bible reading isn't something good Christians do. Intimacy with God's Word is our very life and breath. His Truth is where peace, comfort and security are found.

If you want to know God better, I'll join you on your venture. If you want to meet Him for the first time, find a friend, a pastor, a Bible-teaching church, someone who can introduce you to Him.

Jesus says, "Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father" (John 14:9). Want to know God? Find Jesus first. Accept Him as Lord and Savior of your life. Then God's peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live--not in fear--but in Christ Jesus.

Thanks, but No Thanks

October 28, 2011


"And all the people in the region of the Gerasenes begged Jesus to go away and leave them alone." Luke 8:37

A few months ago I grew tired of the guilt I experienced each time I passed the face of a homeless person without stopping to offer assistance (although in this case I am certain I felt more conviction than guilt). To appease my convicted heart I packed resealable bags with jars of peanut butter, crackers and a booklet-sized version of Rick Warren's book, A Purpose Driven Life, titled, What On Earth Am I Here For? (you can buy 10 of these booklets for $12 at Christianbook.com . . . I'm just sayin'). I placed the bags inside a box which resides in my car.

On our way home from the store today the girls and I passed a man who held a sign that read, "Homeless, please help." As Satan would have it, due to a recent trip in which we needed every ounce of available space inside the car (you with multiple kiddos understand the dilemma), my box of supplies laid at home. Determined not to simply pass by this man without extending him a glimmer of hope, I drove home, retrieved the bags, and returned to the store parking lot. (The mommy who likes to stick to a schedule would like to mention that at this point it was well past nap time . . . for all of us.) The girls and I located our man and as I drove near I rolled down my window so that he could see I had something to give to him. Cars stacked up behind me. Sensing a lack of desperation in his face I decided to ask, "Would this help?" to which he examined the contents of my bag, wrinkled his nose and said, "Nah, no thanks. But thanks anyway."

Interesting.

Perhaps he's allergic to peanut butter. Maybe he's more of a PB & J type of guy. At least he had manners. I tried to reason to myself.

Then in crept the bitterness.

I got a nose crinkle! How dare he claim to be in need but reject my offering of free food and a good read.

Then it hit me.

How many times have I been in need but rejected the One who offers to feed me the bread of life?

The food I offered the homeless man might have sustained him for a few hours. Jesus offers us food which sustains us throughout all eternity. Jesus said, "I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to Me will never
be hungry again. Whoever believes in Me will never be thirsty" (John 6:35).

"Man does not live on bread alone but on every word that comes from the mouth of the LORD" (Deuteronomy 8:3, Matthew 4:4). God's promises sustain us more than any four-course meal. The Son of God enters our life and fills us with the power to live as more than conquerors in every situation through Him. Yet how many times have I said to Him and His Ways, "Thanks, but no thanks."

That's exactly what the Gerasenes said.

In Mark 6 we read of a man possessed by evil spirits. Upon His arrival the spirits immediately recognize Jesus and beg Him for mercy. Jesus casts the spirits into a nearby herd of pigs, and the pigs run into a lake and drown. Did the crowd erupt with a wave of cheers? A man possessed by taunting spirits now stood healed! Nope. No attaboy's for Jesus. Instead, the crowd asked Him to leave. "Thanks Jesus, but no thanks. Your ways are too much for us. You're not quite what we were looking for."

We're all in need of a Savior. The life-sustaining power of Christ and His Word awaits. His arm rests extended from the widows of Heaven. Will you accept His offering?

Meeting Needs

October 25, 2011


"'Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,' says the Lord
of Heaven’s Armies, 'I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will
pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in!
Try it! Put me to the test!'" Malachi 3:10 

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas . . .  Everywhere you go you'll find store shelves increasingly stocked with Christmas treasures (you can thank me later for placing that jingle in your head). Each year the arrival of the holiday season seems to usher in a fresh awareness of needs . . . as well as the pressure to say "yes," and feelings of guilt for saying "no." As requests for support begin to flood our mailboxes, churches and hearts, how do we keep from growing bitter and resentful or overwhelmed by all the needs? By turning to the One who owns all things.

"The whole earth is mine and everything in it," says the Lord (Psalm 50:12). Recognizing ourselves as stewards--not owners--of God's resources is the key which unlocks the door to a generous heart.

I recently asked my small group to consider where they would place themselves on a scale of 1-10; 1 representing the utmost struggle to recognize that all we have comes from the Lord (after all, we work hard for our stuff, don't we?) and 10 representing the firm belief that everything we have comes from Him. I didn't force anyone to answer aloud (what kind of teacher would I be?!?). However, I did profess that most of the time I am hard-pressed to place myself at a "10." My head recognizes that all I have comes from Him but my heart tends to disagree.

God's ownership over all things can best be demonstrated by the parable of the three servants found in Matthew 25. A man leaves for a long trip. While away he entrusts his money to three servants. The first servant receives 5 bags of silver. He invests them and earns 5 more. The second servant receives 2 bags of silver. He invests them and earns 2 more. The third servant receives 1 bag of silver. Afraid of loosing what little he was given, the third servant simply hides his bag of silver in the ground. When the master returns he replies to the first and second servants, "Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have
been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many
more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!" (Matthew 25:21, 23) To the third servant the master responds, "That's a terrible way to live! It's criminal to live cautiously like
that! . . . Get rid of
this "play-it-safe" who won't go out on a limb. Throw him out into
utter darkness" (Matthew 25:26-30, The Message).

The master responds a little harshly to the third servant, don't you think? It's not as if the third servant squandered his master's money; he simply held on to it for a rainy day. Cast into utter darkness? Why?

Because God makes us rich in every way so that we can be generous on every occasion (2 Corinthians 9:11).

What about that rainy day? Isn't it prudent to save up for hard times?

Like the ant we are wise to store up food for the winter (Proverbs 6:6 and 30:25). But the earth is God's and everything in it. God owns it all--even our emergency funds.

God makes us rich in every way so that we can be generous on every occasion. God gives us
our wealth as well as the ability to earn wealth. Romans 12:6 says that
in His grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things
well. All we have, all that we are . . . comes from Him. God is the owner, we are the steward. When it comes to meeting needs the answer is simple: ask the Owner how He would have us invest His resources--His money, the time and very breath He gives us, the abilities with which He has empowered us--to meet the needs of others.

Remember the boy who offered two fish and a few loaves of bread to feed 5,000 men? I'm certain those men scoffed at the boy's contribution. But in the hands of Christ there proved more than enough to go around.

What if God asks me to give it all away?

God loves a generous giver (2 Corinthians 9:7). "To
those who use well what they are given, even more will be given, and
they will have an abundance" (Matthew 25:29).  "'Bring your tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,' says the Lord
of Heaven’s Armies, 'I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will
pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in!
Try it! Put me to the test!'" (Malachi 3:8) God will never let you out-give Him.

Scripture clearly calls us to meet the needs of others. I
challenge you to ask God how He would have you meet the needs of the
world around us, and ask Him to give you the courage to obey. As the holiday season approaches, "let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up" (Galatians 6:9).

He's Calling You

October 9, 2011


"So they called the blind man. 'Cheer up,' they said. 'Come on, He’s calling you!'" Mark 10:49

Bartimaeus was a poor, blind man. His physical limitations forced him to depend on others for even the most basic of needs. Unable to actively embrace the beauty of this world we find Bartimaeus perched along the side of the road. Hopeless. Forgotten. Doubting his significance in life. Questioning, "Is there any purpose for me?"

Then enters the Savior. The Christ. The One of whom it was foretold that when He should come, "the eyes of the blind would be opened" (Isaiah 35:5).

Satan whispers, "He doesn't want you, Bartimaeus. You're nothing but a blind beggar. What would the Christ have to do with you? You were born blind; your father was blind. It runs in your family. Don't you know there's no hope for you?"

But Bartimaeus dismisses the enemy's lies. Bartimaeus has heard rumors of the healing power of the Christ. Bartimaeus' ears capture the rumblings of a crowd. Seated on the ground Bartimaeus begins to feel the vibrations of a stampede of footsteps which follow the Healer. Could it be Him--the Christ? Should I ask for help? What if He turns me away? Desperate for hope, Bartimaeus shoves doubt and fear aside. As God in flesh approaches, Bartimaeus stands in faith and cries, "Son of David! Mercy, have mercy on me!" (Luke 10:48)

Time stood still for Bartimaeus. How would the Holy One respond to the cries of a poor, desperate beggar? Would Bartimaeus be cast away in shame or welcomed with open arms? Truth be known, we struggle with similar doubts.

Jesus stops.

"Tell him to come here."

The crowd rejoices. Because if there's hope for Bartimaeus, there's hope for them too.

“Cheer up,” they said. “Come on, He’s calling you!”

Only Heaven knows the hope that lies in those three little words.

He's calling you.

We do not call Him first. We can call upon Him because He first calls us (John 15:16).

How will you respond to His call?

"Bartimaeus threw aside his coat, jumped up, and came to Jesus."

“'What do you want me to do for you?' Jesus asked."

"'My rabbi,' the blind man said, 'I want to see!'”

"And Jesus said to him, 'Go, for your faith has healed you.' Instantly the man could see, and he followed Jesus down the road" (Mark 10:50-52).

The gracious invitations Christ gives us to
come to Him, are great encouragements to our hope, that we shall speed
well if we come to Him, and shall have what we come for. Let the guilty,
the empty, the tempted, the hungry, the naked, be of good comfort, for He calls them to be pardoned, to be supplied, to be succoured, to
be filled, to be clothed, to have all that done for them, which their
case calls for (Matthew Henry Commentary on Mark 10).

If you find yourself beside a lonely road, take note of His footsteps. Listen for His voice. He's calling you. Call upon Him. Tell Him exactly what you need (Philippians 4:6).

By First Giving Thanks, There Is Always Enough

October 4, 2011


"So Jesus told all the people to sit down on the ground. Then He took the
seven loaves, thanked God for them, and broke them into pieces. He gave
them to His disciples, who distributed the bread to the crowd. They ate as much as they wanted. Afterward, the disciples picked up seven large baskets of leftover food." Mark 8:6, 8

Last night my husband and I had one of our quarterly-ish budget meetings. Hashing out our finances proves almost as much fun as a root canal (no offense, honey--it's the topic of discussion, not the company!). Once again it seems we need to tighten our purse strings.

Fear and doubt become frequent (and unwanted) visitors during hard economic times. When I feel tempted to fret I must turn to the One who promises to supply all my needs (Philippians 4:19).

Each of the four gospel writers included the account of Jesus feeding 5,000-plus people with only a few loaves of bread. What I find most intriguing about this story is that by first giving thanks to God for what He had, God supplied His Son with with more than enough food to feed the crowd.

Philippians 4:6 reads, "Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done."

When fear says, "You'll never have enough," God says, "Do not worry. Tell Me what you need. Thank Me for all I have done."

Matthew 6:33 reads, "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need."

When the world says, "If it's going to be it's up to me," God says, "Seek Me first. I will give you all you need."

When my husband lost his job last year my dad sent us a sizable check "just in case." Thankfully, after a few months we were able to return the check to my dad uncashed. Matthew 7:11 reminds me, "If you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask Him." Though my earthly father loves me dearly, my heavenly Father loves me even more. Though my earthly father could afford to supply us with the resources to cover several months worth of living expenses, my heavenly Father's resources are glorious and unlimited (Ephesians 3:16).

I fail to understand how He does it. Our budget almost never works on paper but somehow we've always had more than enough.

What are you in need of today? Money? Faith? Hope? Patience? Endurance? Peace?

Seek His kingdom first. Tell Him what you need. Thank Him for what He has given. Then you'll experience more than you'll ever need.

He Comes to Us

October 1, 2011


"He saw that they were in serious trouble, rowing hard and struggling
against the wind and waves. About three o’clock in the morning Jesus came toward them . . .. Then He climbed into the boat, and the wind stopped." Mark 6:48, 51

I am unsure of which part of the aforementioned Scripture I find more fascinating--the fact that Jesus noticed that His disciples were in trouble, or the fact that He went to them.

Friends, we have a Savior who "hems us in from behind and before" (Psalm 139:5). He stands very much aware of the trials we face. Indeed, the very circumstances in which we find ourselves had to first pass through His sovereign hand. Though we may not understand why God allows trouble to come our way we know He has promised, "Never will I leave you. Never will I forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).

Jesus saw that they were in serious trouble.

He sees.

Jesus came toward them.

He cares.

Jesus climbed into the boat with them.

He comes alongside of us amidst our circumstances.

And the wind stopped.

And His presence calms even the mightiest storm.

In what "boat" do you find yourself?

Will you allow Jesus to climb in?

Feeling Filthy?

September 23, 2011


"So the angel said to the others standing there, 'Take off his filthy
clothes.' And turning to Jeshua he said, 'See, I have taken away your
sins, and now I am giving you these fine new clothes.'” Zechariah 3:4

Ever felt so immersed in sin that you deemed yourself unworthy to stand before God? Ever whispered these phrases of defeat, "God could never forgive me for the things I have done. Surely He feels repulsed by me." Sister, you are not alone. Did you know that all--ALL--have sinned and fallen short of God (Romans 3:23)? No one stands righteous before God. Nope, not one (Romans 3:10). The Good News? On account of our Redeemer, our story doesn't have to end in shame or defeat.

God's Word teaches us that our battles are not against flesh-and-blood but against an enemy who remains unseen (Ephesians 6:12). Our enemy prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). This enemy goes by many names: Satan, the devil, the father of lies. But the one name that I find most disturbing is--Accuser.

Satan's primary goal is to separate us from God. Disguising himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), he'll stop at nothing to keep us distanced from the Father. One such tactic the enemy uses is that of accusation. "God could never love someone like you," he taunts. "Think of all the things you've done. All the harm you've caused. All the disgust and filth you've amassed," the harasser continues.

Satan doesn't just attack you. He attacks even God's most high. Zechariah 3:1 reads, "The Accuser, Satan, was there at the angel’s right hand, making accusations against Jeshua."

The Good News?

God has rejected Satan.

Once desiring to be God, Satan lost his right standing before the Lord and was forever cast down in defeat (verse). God declared victory the day Christ was raised from the dead. Check! Therefore, there is now no condemnation in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). all who call upon His name verse

God's response to Satan in Zech reads, "“I, the Lord, reject your accusations, Satan. Yes, the Lord, who has chosen Jerusalem, rebukes you. This man is like a burning stick that has been snatched from the fire.”

God not only rejects Satan's accusations against us, He clothes us in garments of white.

"Jeshua’s clothing was filthy as he stood there before the angel. ⁴
So the angel said to the others standing there, “Take off his filthy
clothes.” And turning to Jeshua he said, “See, I have taken away your
sins, and now I am giving you these fine new clothes.”

No sin is too grievious to be forgiven by God. 1 John 1:9 reads, "

fogivenss comes by salvation, salvation is a gift, can not be earned. Gift you must receive. Profess Jesus

Feeling filthy?

Christ died to remove your filth. In Him, you stand clean. Come to the Lord and allow him to clothe you in garmets of snow.

No condemnation

Small Beginnings

September 22, 2011


"Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” Zechariah 4:10

The Difference of a Decade

September 11, 2011

"You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good." Genesis 50:20

Where were you when you first heard the news ten years ago today? News that our people, our country, our freedom and liberties were under attack?

I
received the news while sitting on my living room couch brushing my teeth before work.
I realize the couch may seem an unusual place to brush one's teeth.
However, the clock read 7:45AM (CST), nearly time for me to leave for
the office. A reporter from the Today show announced that someone
had mistakenly flown a plane into one of the World Trade Center towers.

How in the heck does someone accidentally fly a plane into a building, in downtown New York no less, I wondered as toothpaste foamed in my mouth. I ran to my bathroom to spit (you wanted to know where I was ten years ago today didn't you?) and returned to my living room horrified to hear the answer to my question revealed.

Someone doesn't just accidentally fly a plane into a building.

They
train for years, studying the way of the people over which
they wish to rule, learning to master in deception. They conceal their true identity and invade a land they can't call their own. And when their
intended victims least expect it--they attack.

But
friends, as much animosity as we may feel against those who carried out
the attacks on our country ten years ago today, Ephesians 6:12
reminds us that our battle is not "against flesh-and-blood enemies, but
against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty
powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly
places."

Our enemy is the true master of deception (John 8:44). The one who came to steal, kill and destroy (John 10:10). The serpent who disguises himself as an angel of light
(2 Corinthians 11:14) in a land he will never rightly call his own.

But God.

God says, "What others intend for harm I promise to use for good."

Though I'll always remember the image of the twin towers on September 11, 2001, the picture that burns more brightly in my mind is that of a country which stood united. Many lives were lost that day; spouses were widowed; children were orphaned; traveling by air proves more complicated than it once did. But God used the events of September 11, 2001 to bring about much good in our beloved homeland. Through the events of September 11, 2001, God revealed to this nation our greatest need--a need for revival, a need for someplace (or Someone) in which to place our hope, a need . . . for Him.

As I reflect on the past ten years I realize my life looks completely different than it once did. I can't say God necessarily used the events of September 11, 2001 to change the course of my life. Rather, God used a different event--one the enemy meant for harm--to bring about much good in my life. The event I'm referring to is the loss of my sweet child.

I always assumed I would return to work as a research engineer for a prominent snack food company in North Texas after having children. More of a math and science person, writing and speaking and teaching were not occupations I would have ever considered including on my dossier. But the death of my daughter caused all of my hopes and dreams to fall apart.

Out of sheer desperation I eventually called out to God and asked Him to show me how His promises of goodness would ever hold true for me as a bereaved mother. Not knowing what to do with the rest of my life I asked God to lead the way. As I drew nearer to Him through His Word I realized God had filled me with a desire to reach out to other women enduring hard times. My life looks unlike anything I ever envisioned. On account of my relationship with God and the place(s) He has led me through that relationship, my life is more full and more rich than I ever imagined. God took what the enemy meant for harm and used it for good.

What about you?

As we pause to remember the events which occurred ten years ago today, I invite you to take a moment to reflect upon your own life. How has God used for good what someone else intended for harm? If you've yet to see good result from your struggles, would you consider asking God to lead the way?

Fireproof Faith

September 9, 2011


"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor
rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:19-21

Yesterday my husband forwarded to me an e-mail from college-friends of ours. Our friends wrote to assure us of their personal safety and to confirm that they, along with so many others, had indeed lost everything they owned in recent fires which have spread across our state. The e-mail moved me to tears, not because our friends wrote of hopelessness or desperation, but because they wrote of abundant hope and joy amidst a true fire. I felt so inspired by their fireproof faith that I wanted to share some of what they wrote here with you.

The message began, First of all & most importantly, the family is safe and our faith in the Lord is stronger than ever! . . . all property was lost with the house &
belongings but again - the family is safe & that’s the blessing!

Their faith in the Lord is stronger than ever? Praise Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).

The message continued, had 10 minutes to evacuate, taking only
a few belongings, two changes of clothes, 2 dogs, & 3 cats.

They described the aftermath as everything was incinerated
except some of the limestone rock, the slab, & the tin roof.

They explained the devastation to their children (and to us) as this, Sometimes it helps for all of us to take a childlike perspective on life’s curve-balls & faith in God: I simply told them that there was a bad forest fire and that our
house & all of our stuff was gone – but that’s okay b/c all of our
stuff came from the store.  Also, our whole house came from the store in
little bitty pieces and some workers put them together to make a big
house.  There are still stores and there is always more stuff.  The most
important thing to remember is that you boys & mommy & daddy
came from God and we can’t be replaced!  So as long as we have that,
we’ll be okay and we are blessed!

They are blessed? Praise God who pours out blessings too great to contain (Malachi 3:10).

The message continued, Kids react the way we react & at this point in life, they
believe what we believe.  I’m thankful for that b/c we truly believe
this & it’ll really be okay.  This is an inconvenience more than
anything – not some doomsday, life changing episode.

Kids believe what we believe? Praise God for parents who have committed themselves wholeheartedly to  His commands; who repeat them again and again to their children; who do what is right and good in the Lord’s sight, so all will go well with them (Deuteronomy 6:6,18).

Our friends closed their message by sharing, not a personal address to which we could mail donations, but rather by sharing the address of their church saying, We have many needs but so do many others. Anything sent to this
fund will be distributed to those in need including [us] by people who are excellent stewards of these resources.

Placing concern for others above concern for themselves? Praise God for believers who meet together in one place and share everything they have, who sell their property and possessions and share the money with those in need (Acts 2:44-45).

Father I fall to my knees and thank you for instilling in our friends faith which withstands true fire. I pray you reward them and others like them boldly for their faith in you. Your Word promises that if we seek your kingdom first you will meet all of our needs (Matthew 6:33). You promise to supply our needs from your glorious riches which have been given to us through our relationship with Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). Father, the need is great. I pray you meet the spiritual need by supplying the physical and emotional needs. Help us, Lord, move our hearts to lift in prayer those affected by the floods and fires, and to go, give and serve as the hands and feet of Your Son. I pray protection over those who go in Your Great Name. It is in the powerful, peace-giving name of Jesus I pray, Amen.

Tell Someone!

August 30, 2011


"So faith comes from hearing, that is, hearing the Good News about Christ." Romans 10:17

Driving in my car this weekend I listened to a shocking statistic on the radio: less than one percent of the population in Wales has a relationship with Jesus Christ. Maybe I heard incorrectly, as I find that number nearly incomprehensible, but I think the gist of the story remains the same. "Lord, send workers their way!" I prayed. However, the speaker then revealed something I find even more troubling: Christianity once prevailed in Wales. Consider the massive cathedrals. At one time the people of Wales prioritized their faith and their need for a place of worship. Today, according to the speaker, the church remains largely unused.

What happened?

I realize some people groups remain unreached by the Good News. But once you've heard and received the message of the gospel, how does one go backwards? I know of just one way--we fail to remember the greatness of God (Deuteronomy 8:18). We stop seeking His Kingdom first (Matthew 6:33). We become remiss in telling our children about the wonderful works of the Lord (Deuteronomy 6:7). Romans 10:17 says that faith comes from hearing. When we stop speaking, others stop believing.

One of the magnets on our refrigerator contains this quote from Edmund Burke, "All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."

Satan would love nothing more than for us to believe that others don't need to hear us speak of our faith. The past two summers I have enjoyed the privilege of attending She Speaks, a Christian speakers and writers conference for women. Over 650 gals attend this conference each year. Immersed in a sea of women I find it easy to doubt that I have anything of significance to offer to the body of Christ. Listening to highly experienced, greatly talented speakers tempts me to question whether I'll ever be able to communicate as effectively as these wonderful ladies. However, when I feel tempted to waiver in the message God has placed upon my heart, His Word speaks truth. In Luke 10:2, Jesus said the harvest is GREAT and the workers are FEW.

Sisters, let us continue to share the Good News with all we meet. Let us heed the words of Deuteronomy 6 and begin with our own families. Maybe you believe but don't feel confident in your ability to communicate the message of Christ to others. Nonchalantly pass along a link to this blog. Pray along with me that God would make us sensitive to the spiritual needs of those around us. Pray that God would renew our sense of awe over Him. A sense of wonder and gratitude so strong we can't help but to tell someone!

Faithful Obedience

August 25, 2011


"All the believers were united in heart and mind. And they felt that what they owned was not their own, so they shared everything they had." Acts 4:32

Yesterday my husband and I received a substantial monetary gift in the mail—anonymously. No signature. No return address. Only a card reading, "God laid it on our hearts to send you this." What causes a person  to give generously—and anonymously—to another person? Faithful obedience.

Acts 2 describes a time when the early church began to form. Christ had risen from the dead, appeared to hundreds of individuals, and ascended back to heaven leaving believers with the promise of His return. Scripture tells us that upon hearing the Good News believers everywhere devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching, and to fellowship, and to sharing in meals. They met together in one place and shared everything they had (Acts 2:44-45). "There were no needy people among them, because those who owned land or houses would sell them and bring the money to the apostles to give to those in need" (Acts 4:34-35).

The early believers recognized that all they had came from God, and they were eager to share what they had in order to meet every need. These men and women who gave so generously understood that God never asked us to take care of ourselves. God asks us to love Him first, and to love others as we love ourselves. Not to love ourselves. But to love others as ourselves. God promises that if we do these things, He will meet our needs (Matthew 6:33). God promises to supply all our needs from His glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

I stand fully aware of what God's Word says. But do I heed His message? Faithful obedience places the needs of others, and the desire to please God, above the concern for self. Am I willing to step out in faith, to give freely to another person in need, trusting my Father in Heaven, who sees what is done in secret, to reward me? That kind of obedience takes faith—great faith—that God will indeed do all that He says He will do.

To the person (or persons) who heeded God's gentle nudging of your heart, know that you have blown us away by your faithful obedience to Him. Know that we have asked Him to pour down on your head His abundant blessings. And know that from this point forward I will analyze all handwriting samples in attempt to identify you so that I can place a big fat hug around your neck! I pray that God will grant me with the ears to hear and the faith to obey a similar call.

Feel free to leave a comment sharing a time when another believer generously shared all they had (whether it be time, money, a caring heart) with you.

A Call to Persevere

August 20, 2011


"Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep His promise." Hebrews 10:23

Life is tough.

We come to know Christ as Savior and Lord, and He alters us completely. We find ourselves renewed; ready to engage the world with the power of Christ working in and through us. We expect the world to change. It doesn't. Instead our surroundings remain eerily consistent. We continue to endure strained relationships, bills to pay, a job to pursue, and mortal bodies which fail us daily.

Is it worth the effort?

Is a relationship with God through Christ worth pursuing when we routinely face trouble and hardship and persecution and famine and nakedness and danger and sword?

A relationship with Christ is worth continuing even if the effort to maintain that relationship requires us to sacrifice everything within us.

Hebrews 10:35-37 read, "Do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord. Remember the great reward it brings you! Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that He has promised. For in just a little while, the Coming One will come and not delay."

God sees your effort to hold fast to His ways, and He will reward you greatly for your patient endurance.

Hebrews 10:32-34 read, "Remember those earlier days after you had received the light, when you stood your ground in a great contest in the face of suffering. Sometimes you were publicly exposed to insult and persecution; at other times you stood side by side with those who were so treated. You sympathized with those in prison and joyfully accepted the confiscation of your property, because you knew that you yourselves had better and lasting possessions."

Though life is hard, stand your ground. God has better and lasting things stored up for you.

Scripture says blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him (James 1:12).

The apostle Paul tells us to rejoice in suffering because—there's more to come. Continue to shout your praise even when you're hemmed in with troubles, because you know how troubles can develop passionate patience, and how that patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue, keeping you alert for whatever God will do next. In alert expectancy such as this, you're never left feeling shortchanged. Quite the contrary—you can't round up enough containers to hold everything God generously pours into your life through the Holy Spirit! (Romans 5:3-5, The Message)

So when you face a troubled marriage . . . persevere.

When you face a rebellious child . . . persevere.

When you face a difficult work environment . . . persevere.

When you face financial hardship . . . persevere.

When you face the loss of your health . . . persevere.

When you face the temptation to abandon your faith . . . persevere.

Galatians 6:9 reads, "So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up." Sometimes we must spend a lifetime planting before we reap a harvest. But one day a great harvest will come.

How will you respond to His call to persevere?

Beautiful Feet

August 17, 2011


"So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing." 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Check out my guest post running today at www.lanierlanding.blogspot.com. I pray you'll join me in petitioning the Lord for the healing of this little one. Enjoy!

Deciding the Impossible

August 16, 2011


"And now, dear brothers and sisters, we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died so you will not grieve like people who have no hope." 1 Thessalonians 4:13

"We'd like for you to consider placing a DNR order on your daughter's medical chart."

DNR.

Do Not Resuscitate.

As a new mama, those were the hardest words I'd ever had to hear. 

How do you decide the impossible? How do you gather the strength to approve the removal of a life-support system? How do you give an order that grants permission for your loved one pass from this world into the next? How does one sit and watch their beloved struggle to breathe while taking no action to intervene?

Through the power and hope of Christ and Christ alone.

The day my daughter passed away in my arms my faith in God became more real to me than ever before. Suddenly my life--and the life of my child--depended on it. At times my faith wavered. I contemplated God's sovereignty. I questioned how a loving and compassionate God could allow my daughter to die. But in the end I recognized that only God's promises stand the test of time. The raw exploration of my faith chipped away the parts of my foundation which were built on false beliefs, and led me to the place of true, authentic faith in Him.

I believe there is a God. I believe God's Word--every bit of it. I believe God sent His Son Jesus to die for our sins. I believe that by professing faith in the atoning work of the cross we will live life eternal in Heaven with God and His Son and with others who have professed the same faith in Christ. I believe that in Heaven there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain (Revelation 21:4).

It is my faith that gives me hope. It is my confident hope that gives me the courage to decide the impossible.

My daughter was sick. Very sick. Though I'd have given anything for the chance to care for her here on this earth, it was obvious her little body would have required immense medical support to survive. When doctors asked us to consider placing a DNR order on her chart we knew there was no right or wrong answer. My devoted childhood pastor advised us to consider which option would lead us to a place of peace. Would we find peace amidst our vicious fight to save our daughter? Or would our peace lie in allowing her to return home to her Maker?

Though it was the hardest decision I've ever had to make God faithfully led my husband and me to a place of peace. And on August 24, 2005 our beloved daughter did indeed pass from the loving arms of her mama into the scarred hands of her Savior.

I wrote in greater detail about our decision in my first book. I write today to simply encourage those who face similarly impossible decisions. May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him (Romans 15:13).

My (Homeschool) Help Comes From the Lord

"Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect." Romans 12:2

Six days into our new homeschool year and already I notice a significant difference between the workload of this year and last year. Last year I could get away with being half-engaged while the other half of me wondered if God had truly called me to homeschool. This year I have two young students who require--and deserve--my utmost devotion.

Taming the Mean Girl Inside

August 9, 2011


"If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Romans 12:18

Just in case I've given anyone reason to think of me as a saint . . .

Just in case you think I live by the Spirit at all times . . .

Just in case you think I'm full of sugar and spice and everything nice . . .

I'm writing to set the record straight. There's a mean girl inside of me, and yesterday—she escaped.

My day began as any other normal day. Quiet time—check. Shower accomplished and game-face (i.e. makeup) applied—check, check. Breakfast, laundry, a bit of housecleaning—check, check, check. No inclination that the mean girl in me was preparing to make a big debut.

Come late morning the girls and I headed to an eye-glasses store to replace my oldest daughter's prescription lenses. In defense of the mean girl I must explain that for some reason any time I address issues with my daughter's eyesight my emotions run high. I remember that the only reason my daughter requires eyeglasses is because of all she . . . and her late twin sister endured six years ago. I praise God that the only outstanding complication with which our daughter struggles is her eyesight; an issue which is easily resolved with prescription lenses. But it makes this mama's heart tinge with pain just the same.

(Mind you none of this serves as an excuse for what happened next.)

With our selections in hand I asked the nearest employee, who just so happened to be the store manager, for assistance. It was then that I realized I'd left a coupon for a discount off of my daughter's glasses at home. The manager kindly explained that I had to have the coupon in my sweet little hand to receive the savings.

Unfortunately, that caused the mean girl inside of me to rise.

Before I knew it the mean girl in me shoved the nice girl—the girl who had her quiet time that morning, the girl who teaches a weekly Sunday school class—to the ground, and began to wreak havoc in the eyes and hearts of those standing witness. She asked the manager if he really intended for her to drive all the way back home with three little ones in tow just to get a coupon he could find on the store website. When he insisted that was indeed the case, the mean girl tossed three pairs of sample frames back on the table and stormed out of the building with those three little darling ones in hand, only to discover that one of the sample frames she had not-so-kindly pushed aside was actually her daughter's real glasses. The mean and now embarrassed and ashamed-of-her-behavior girl had to re-enter the store, reclaim her daughter's glasses, and then flee from the store before anyone noticed the tears streaming down her oh-so-humiliated face.

Ever met that mean girl?

Of course you haven't. She only lives in me.

We try ladies, don't we? We have our quite time. We pray. We love, or at least we attempt to.

Why is it us Jesus girls still sometimes fall flat on our faces?

I dunno why. But I do know this—as His daughters God calls us to strive toward a higher standard. A standard which is not met through our own strength (obviously) but through Christ's strength in us.

God calls us to—as much as it depends on us—live at peace with everyone (Romans 12:18). God calls us to be holy because He is holy (1 Peter 1:16). God calls us to bless those who curse us and to pray for those who hurt us (Luke 6:28). God calls us to feed those who are hungry for Him and to help those who are in trouble (Isaiah 58:10).

What's a mean girl to do?

Repent. Ask forgiveness. Receive forgiveness. And then, try again.

On my way back to the car I asked the Lord my God to forgive me. Inside the car I asked my kids to forgive me. Once I returned with the coupon in hand I asked the store clerk to forgive me. When we returned to pick up my daughter's new glasses (which were ready in a few hours!) I asked the store manager to forgive me.

When we claim to be children of God we serve as representatives of His Great Name wherever we go. May He give us the strength to bring glory and honor to Him in all that we do.

How you tame the mean girl inside of you? Leave a comment to share your ideas.